I have been bellyaching for weeks about how much I don’t want to be single. I want to be married. Be with a person that loves me, and we are there for each other and have the security of commitment. Sounds nice, doesn’t it? Then the other day I was playing at an...
Please tell me why all my married friends think online dating is such a bad idea. Whenever I mention getting online and ordering a new husband or boyfriend, depending on my mindset or goals at the time, their eyes get all wide, their noses start to curl up like they...
What I miss about being married. I miss the security of it. I know that sounds funny after what I wrote in the blog introduction, but the truth is I miss the illusion of security. I miss feeling like I was in this game of life with my spouse by my side, and it was...
Okay, why should I feel bad and like a misfit of society because I have two failed marriages? Actually, can I say they were failures? One lasted thirteen years and the other ten. If you ask me, that is a freakin’ long time, and a lot longer than many other things,...
I’m in charge of my own schedule. I am in charge of what I do with my life. I don’t have to clean men’s dirty underwear and socks. I don’t have to clean up after a man. I’m in charge of the remote control. Well, at least until my boyfriend visits. I don’t have to...
