Guidance or Burning

Guidance or Burning

I have this novel I have worked on for years. I have completely gutted it and rewrote it at least six times. The novel mattered to me. I cared about it. It owned my heart. I was willing to pay any price to get it right. I rewrote that thing until I couldn’t look at it...
Why I love Being Single

Why I love Being Single

 I’m in charge of my own schedule. I am in charge of what I do with my life. I don’t have to clean men’s dirty underwear and socks. I don’t have to clean up after a man. I’m in charge of the remote control.  Well, at least until my boyfriend visits. I don’t have to...
Label Slap

Label Slap

What’s up with all these labels we slap on other people and make them live with, like the label is the sum of who they are? One of the times I really felt the sting of a label was when I got the “separated” title slapped onto me. My X#2 wanted a divorce. I get that....