I have a silly fear. Since all of a sudden I decided to jump back into the marriage game, I am afraid I have lost my legitimacy as a woman author who is writing about the single woman’s plight. Does it help my credibility that I still feel like a single woman? Most of...
I’ve been told throughout my whole life that I am too intense. People complain that I do too much and blame it on my intensity. I am finally beginning to realize that I am just a mirror of other peoples’ inadequacies. They tell me I do too much because they feel...
So, I’ve been to several relationship seminars lately. The lady experts claim they can help you find “The One.” So much emphasize is put on “The One” that it’s almost like finding “The One” is the Holy Grail of happiness. If you could only capture and claim “The One,”...
My boyfriend just asked me if I’d be willing to move from California to Tucson. My first thought was, “But Tucson’s ugly.” My second thought was, “Hmmm that would give me another exotic place to write about.” Does the motivation to write better interfere with anyone...
A weird thing is happening. My life is becoming a better plot story than any book I’ve been able to create. The stakes in my life are huge, and before I can get one problem solved another major crises occurs. I’m trying to take notes on how this is happening so that I...
