Heartbreak AGAIN

Heartbreak AGAIN

I’m getting too old to be going through so much heartbreak. I know, being in my forties really shouldn’t be that old, but a person who has lived as intensely as I have is an exception. I crammed in a lot of heartache in those forty years. When I was in...
Marriage Damaging?

Marriage Damaging?

I have a silly fear. Since all of a sudden I decided to jump back into the marriage game, I am afraid I have lost my legitimacy as a woman author who is writing about the single woman’s plight. Does it help my credibility that I still feel like a single woman? Most of...
What I Miss about Marriage?

What I Miss about Marriage?

What I miss about being married.  I miss the security of it. I know that sounds funny after what I wrote in the blog introduction,  but the truth is I miss the illusion of security. I miss feeling like I was in this game of life with my spouse by my side, and it was...
Wisdom of Marriage

Wisdom of Marriage

Marriage.  Done it twice. What wisdom did I gain from twenty-three years of devotion to that institution? No two marriages are alike. In my first marriage I was held as an organizing genius.  I had my stuff together and he admired that. Second marriage I was...
Marriage Insurance Policy

Marriage Insurance Policy

The other day my mother told me if I really wanted to be happy I should get married! After double checking if I heard right, I asked, “Why on earth would I do that, since my boyfriend and I have a relationship that’s working out just fine?” She said, “Security.”...